I am a: Quirky sysadmin. Geek. Gamer. Comic fangirl. My little space, my home on the interwebs. I blog about personal stuffs, work, various coding projects, and anything else I feel like.

I awoke to a message this morning that a long time friend had passed away: “Big Jim” Garner, of Obliviaxe fame. We met when I was in college in a little hole in the wall bagel shop on Highland Avenue, Southside, during the summer of ’95. We happened to both be in line to grab […]

Driving home from Oneonta this year was different from previous years. While I still contemplated all of the many things for which I am thankful, my heart hurts for my family. My brother and his wife are divorcing. Being there tonight, I saw some of myself in my sister-in-law and some of my father in […]

Feeling so lost right now. Disoriented. Disconnected. I keep checking my phone out of habit to see if you’ve texted. Checking Facebook to see if you’ve updated or sent a DM. How am I supposed to move forward now? From this? I have this gaping aperture in my heart … you’re still there, but just […]

Lately I’ve been distracted from my distractions. Work is busy, as always. IT is moving into a new area at work due to complaints from neighboring departments because … well, we cut up and talk to each other. We’re a team, teams do this. Apparently that’s a foreign concept to some people. Worse is that […]

Wow … when did it become August? My last update was my post doctor-visit. I haven’t been sticking quite to the diet like I should’ve been since then, but I haven’t gone back to my old ways either. Work has been a roller coaster. I had a huge project recently go live and already have […]

I dawned on me over the weekend that I had shared this on Twitter and Facebook, but not on here. Internet, meet Selina Kyle, Bruce’s new sister. I adopted her on April 25th. She was 12 weeks old at the time. So I’ve had her just over a month. Bruce is slowly (and I mean […]