So I get a respond to an older post on my personal Tumblr site:
OK, so several things wrong here … the response is from a brand new account, so I’m assuming it’s likely this person created the account just to be able to respond. Which is kind of silly within itself because I’m fairly certain I have anonymous replies enabled (I’ll double-check next time I login).
Also: This person also assumes a lot. The man about whom I wrote was someone I had only just started dating. Sex was not even in the picture yet. My initial reaction was to laugh because I found this hilarious, yet a little disturbing the more I think about it. I mean, this person’s reaction to a woman posting about a man behaving badly is to blame the woman?
That’s some classic misogyny right there.
I’ve met a few of these types face to face, and every single one of them tried very hard to tell me what a “nice guy” they were. Seriously dudes, if you’re a nice guy, we’ll see it in your actions (or lack thereof).